The answer to all of these questions is: It Depends.
The thing is this: wedding reception protocol is all about tradition -- but you have to remember that just because something is tradition, it does not necessarily mean that it is the law (it usually isn't!).
However most people attending the wedding will be expecting something reasonably "normal", so you must be aware of what "normal" is -- what speeches are expected, what order they "should" be in, and so on.
I have found a site that describes Wedding Reception Protocol and provides some good insights that will put your mind at rest.
I think it will be worth a visit!
Certainly it’s important to avoid lengthy and boring speeches. It’s not a good idea to go on and on as you don't want to turn off your guests. There is no doubt that writing a wedding speech is a difficult and stressful task for most of us. I think homework is the key to giving a good bridegroom speech, especially if you are nervous. It would be good to be genuine when you are writing it. As it will reflect in your speech and your friends will definitely appreciate it.
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